When was the last time you went out with your girlfriends? You must likely have had a great time chatting away and the time probably passed quickly. If you go out to meet members of the opposite sex in this way, you may start to notice that not many will approach your pack. In fact, do not be surprised if no single man approaches you all night. This seems bizarre but quite often, it happens. The simple reason is, some men are afraid.
Men are fearful of this situation for several reasons and many times choose to avoid it. Believe it or not large groups of women intimidate men. One of the first reasons is down to simple convenience. If a man is interested in just one person, he does not want to wade through four or five others to get to the one he wants. He wants to go straight for his target and try his luck.
Men also avoid this situation because of their egos. Flirting with someone is difficult enough. Things could go well or you could crash and burn. When it comes to crashing and burning, a man would rather do it without an audience.
Women do frequently go out together, sometimes for safety and others just for companionship. Men dread crowds of women for fear of what they might do. If you are with friends try separating frequently. This will give the poor man an opportunity to approach and try his luck.
If a man decides to flirt with their friends and does it badly, he may have to not only deal with the one he insulted but all of her friends as well. This could prove to be a highly stressful and volatile situation.
You may also want to refrain from talking to your friends for a bit because some men find it rude to interrupt. If you take a breather then they may approach when the opportunity presents itself.
Flirting can be both fun and a challenge. Some find it hard to believe that men find it just as hard, if not harder than women do. If you are with your friends, perhaps separate or stop your conversation. You may notice someone who has noticed you.
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