You have powers of attraction that you do not even realize. Even if you feel you do not have much to offer, trust yourself you do. You must not be a 6 ft runway model or make a 6-figure secretary to attract. You simply need to find out what is unique and interesting about you and show it off.
Most of us like to read books of one type or another. Even if you do not read very often, chances are you have had the odd paperback in your bag for those long waiting times at airports or appointments. This ways, you can draw people who like reading close to you.
By having books with you and actually reading them, eventually somebody will notice you. This is a magnificent opening to engage somebody, which has a similar interest with you in a conversation. Where things go from there is entirely up to you.
Some of us like certain items or styles of clothing. If you like something, wear it. Someone is bound to notice and make a comment. Again, this provides a great opportunity to meet someone with similar taste to yours. Once you start talking, the opportunities are endless.
Finally, you can be attractive by looking interested. If you meet someone, let him or her have the floor for the majority of the time. Do not stay completely quiet but let them have about 60 percent of the talk time. This makes you appear interested in them, which is a very attractive quality. Being interesting does not take a lot of effort. You definitely have something unique about you; use it to your advantage.
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