Flirting Tips: First Step.

Ever notices someone that, you would like to get to know better? Ever look over and see someone looking back at you? Are you afraid of letting someone know how you feel because ‎you are afraid he or she might, not be interested? Well you are not alone. Nearly all of us at some ‎point in our lives have felt this way. If you really want to get that person’s attention, and find ‎out if they could be interested in you then learn to flirt.‎

Flirting is a great way to seek out the information that you want. It also does not have to be ‎very emotional. If the other person does not respond then you can move on to someone or ‎something else. Knowing how to flirt effectively is the key to getting them interested and ‎keeping them that way. To have a successful flirting, you need to look at the way people do flirt and get some tips ‎on how to do it effectively.‎

Below are rules to guide you to successful and flourishing flirting:

Rule No. 1

One of the first rules of flirting is never do it for the sake of it. Although flirting is ‎relatively harmless, you are playing with another person’s emotions. Flirting with someone you are not ‎interested in just is not pleasant.

Rule No. 2

The next rule of flirting is not to worry about what you say as ‎much as how you look and what you are doing. When someone sees you, he or she gives slightly ‎over half of their attention to how you look. Make sure you look nice and are dressed for the ‎occasion. You just want to be notice, not to shock people.‎

Rule No. 3

The next item of importance is your body language. About one third of their attention will go ‎to this. Watch what you do. Make sure you are not doing anything embarrassing with your hands ‎or moving about too much. Stand up straight, do not slouch, and look confident.‎

Rule No. 4

Finally, try to stay calm. If you are naturally ‎funny or charming then use this to your advantage, If not then the less said the better. Try to ‎engage in a friendly conversation.‎

To find out if that special someone is interested in you then try flirting. By flirting, you will ‎draw attention and hopefully attract the one that you want. By paying attention to how you ‎look, what you do and what you say to a degree, you could be well on your way to finding ‎that special soul mate.‎