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27 August 2010

Flirting Tips: Things to Try.

There is no sure fire way to flirt. People flirt in different ways and depends how they feel comfortable. ‎Some of us like to be subtle and give small signals while others can be more assertive and direct. ‎Your success will depend highly on the person you are flirting with and your own style.‎

For those having very little flirting experience, there are a few things that you can try to get the ‎attention of that special person. These things are just simple things that anyone could ‎do in order to flirt.‎

Something you can do that is somewhat harmless is to glace over at the one you are interested in, at ‎frequent intervals. You do not want to start them down just by occasionally looking over. It is okay to ‎make eye contact with them and then smile. Whatever you do, do not look away the second time they ‎notice you glancing. This will make both of you quite uncomfortable.‎

If you are in a public place, like a bar or restaurant, you could try making trips near the person ‎your interested in. You could go to the restroom and plan a simple indirect route around where your ‎target is sitting. If you are feeling brave enough, smile as you pass by. This can easily be figure out as ‎flirting or friendliness.‎

If you finally approach the person and engage them in conversation, compliments always are ‎nice. You do not want to overdo it or make them obvious. See if something arises in the ‎conversation. For example, if the person says something about their profession, you could show ‎interest and tell them how much you admire it. It is imperative that you sound genuine otherwise ‎it will sounds like cheap pick up lines.‎

Laughing at jokes is always nice. People like to know that they have a good sense of humour. Try ‎to laugh only if you find it funny. If the joke is actually bad just ignore it.‎

Finally, inquiring about hobbies and pastimes is a great way to flirt. It serves two purposes. You ‎are getting to know the person as well as laying the groundwork for possible future date possibilities.‎

All of these tips are fun harmless things that can help the flirting process. They are things that ‎nearly everyone can do despite their level of comfort. By practicing these tips, you may be well on ‎your way to a first date in the near future.‎

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