Unbelievably you likely have many interesting and unique things about you. Perhaps you like to dress a certain way or wear your hair in a particular manner. Anything like this can help you to flirt and be attractive to others. Uniqueness attracts attention and once that happens, the flirting can begin.
Something you need to do is to let that person know you are interested. Many people make the mistake of shying away when they see someone they find interesting or attractive. If you see someone that you find attractive, do not turn away and take every effort not to notice them. Try smiling and even saying hello. Some fear looking too obvious but this are exactly what you want.
If this person does not know you like them then you could lose your opportunity. Something that you should try is to be interesting by acting interested. When you meet someone and start talking, let him or her have the majority of the conversation. You do not have to just sit there and be talked at by allow them to have about 60 percent of the floor. Your showing them you interested in what they say which is a very attractive quality.
Finally, find something unique about yourself and show it off. For instance, you like colourful clothing then, wear them. If you like, certain books then are seen carrying and reading them. This will attract those that have similar tastes to you. Whatever you do, do not put up a front. Do not be seen with classic novels just because the one you know the one you are interested in likes them. This needs to be a genuine interest not a made up one. These plans always backfire.
Flirting can be quite fun and not as difficult as many think. They key to attracting people to you is using your uniqueness. Get yourself noticed with your interests and soon you will find people coming to you. In turn, be interested in others and you will soon find many of great people to flirt with and get to know better.
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