Flirting is one of the way of getting and keeping the attention of that special someone. Flirting can be easy and fun it just requires some sincerity and a little practice. Never flirt just for the sake of it. Even though it is harmless you have to remember that you are playing with someone’s’ emotions. Flirting with someone you are not interested in to get something in return just is not nice.
Get Out There, No one who moans about not being able to find anyone is trying hard enough. There are plenty of great men and women out there to meet and get to know. Anyone who says this likely heads straight home from work and spend the rest of the evening in front of the television.
Meeting people requires some effort. If you are on your own all the time, that will never happen.
You need to get out on occasion and see others. Many use the excuse, “I don’t like the bar and night club scene”. Well. You do not have too. In fact, most lasting relationships started in places other than bars and clubs. A great place to start is where you spend about 1/3 of your life. This is at work. Those that form lasting relationships in the work place last by a much larger percentage than those formed in the bar and club arenas.
Work colleagues make great possible life partners but make sure your flirting will not get you fired. Some companies have no dating policies. These are difficult to enforce but they can make your life difficult. You should also keep your behaviour at work professional. Do the flirting outside of work, or at breaks or lunches. Wasting company time could bring disciplinary action.
If work does not provide anyone that, you are interested in, and then think of other areas in your life. Perhaps join a gym to become fit. These are great places to improve your health as well as meet others. Courses and seminars are also ideal opportunities.
Meeting people is not as difficult as your think. You need to think of places you regularly go to and activities you could engage in. One does not have to be bars fly to meet interesting people; you simply need to switch off the TV and get out of your house.
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